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Hi to my lovely, amazing, beautiful, handsome, and wonderful readers! *kiss kiss emoji*
So, this is going to be an early update, wasn't really expecting this to happen.
So I heard the news from my cousin few minutes after my latest blog update last night.
I found out that some people were bashing her on Facebook, through chat and post.

Yes, it is very immature to do such a thing. I didn't wan't to defend her in a way would make me a bad example, but I wasn't really able to hold myself to stay down because, well, first of all, she is my cousin, she's part of the family. My cousin and I are cousins by blood, but best friends by choice.


So I was the one who replied to all the trash, honestly, I knew I went too far and it wasn't smart to do such act. I sincerely apologize to those who have read my trashy post on Facebook.
It was really wrong to do it. I also felt guilty because yesterday I posted a video about the proper use of social media, and then trashy post came after it, which made me a really bad example. I am really sorry.


I don't want my cousin to feel the pain she does not deserve. But I want to be a good example to her. So here goes, the reality is famous or not, whatever your religion is, white or black, good or evil, and other more labels. Everyone has a hater. Our imperfections cause us to hurt the people around us again and again. Bad things will always happen, people are capable of hurting you, people will say crap about you even though you don't deserve any negative word they say.

The important thing is HOW YOU DEAL WITH THE SITUATION. When people bring you down, be strong enough to rise up and continue walking. KEEP ON WALKING, never look back.You know who you really are. As long as you know that you're not made up of the words that hurt you, that's enough. You don't need to prove anything to those haters. Haters will be haters. If you think you are not strong enough to deal with hate? You're totally wrong, you were given this life because you are strong enough to handle it!

Remember what God said? "LOVE YOUR ENEMIES", "FORGIVE THOSE WHO HAVE SIN AGAINST YOU".



Sincerely,
Grace Dajao Flores(Also known as, Queen Catty.)


Thanks for reading!

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